HOW
ABOUT WOMEN ELDERS?
Cecil Hook
Although
I could always see inconsistency in the restrictions that we placed
upon women in service capacities, I was content to limit women to
their traditional roles as a “safe course.” Along with
the usual restrictive proof-texts, I often quoted the sharp-witted
English writer Samuel Johnson: “Sir, a woman preaching is like
a dog walking on his hind legs. It is not done well; but you are
surprised to find it done at all.”
Compelled
by honesty with myself, however, in time my studies have forced me to
change many strongly conditioned conclusions. Now I must admit that I
see only one main restriction hindering a women from any Christian
ministry that her male counterpart can fulfil.
A few
years ago I came across a booklet with a long title, “The
Christian Woman May Pray in the Public Worship Assembly,”
written by Darrell Foltz. After reading it, I wrote the author
stating that he had answered every objection that I had except one.
If women are accepted in the same capacities as men, I inquired, why
did Jesus not choose some women apostles?
Pondering
that question after mailing the letter, I concluded that it was
because the culture of his society would have considered it
objectionable. A few days later I received a similar explanation from
the author of the booklet.
That is
the chief, if not the only, restriction to be considered relating to
the women’s activity today.
This
factor is not too surprising when we consider that social and
cultural perceptions are considered relating to various other things
like the veil, women’s hair, the kiss, footwashing, and
slavery.
The
limiting statements in 1 Corinthians 14 and 1 Timothy 2 were meant to
correct improprieties in the conduct of certain women in their
particular situations. Paul was not laying down universal
prohibitions. He had already told what women could do in I
Corinthians 11, and he had not changed his mind by the time he wrote
chapter 14. He said that they could pray and prophesy in their
gatherings.
Paul’s
regulations relate to husband-wife more than to man-woman relations.
Man is not the head of woman in a universal sense. I am not the head
of your wife; neither do you have authority over my wife. The husband
is the head of his wife and she is to be submissive to him, not me.
These points are clarified in good studies, or re-studies, that are
now available in books and tapes.
Simply
put: Paul plainly states that women may pray and prophesy, and Philip
had four daughter who did so. And few of us would deny that a woman
may rightly do what the evangelist Philip did with the Ethiopian
eunuch. He preached Jesus to him, and she can preach in a similar
manner. So what is the problem other than our prejudicial social
conditioning?
Alright,
you caught me in a trap, didn’t you? A woman cannot he an
elder. An elder must be the husband of one wife. We have never seen a
woman with a wife!
It is
undeniable that Phoebe was a deacon (the Greek has no feminine form
like the English deaconness). Women are included in the description
of deacons in 1 Tim. 3:8-13. They were to qualify as deacons. Yet it
says, “Let deacons be the husband of one wife.” If a
woman can be a deacon without a wife. why can she not be an elder
without one?
The
descriptions of elders and deacons are not lists of legal
qualification as we have generally perceived them to be, else the
lists to Timothy and Titus would be identical. They are, however, the
general description of the kind of persons to recognize. Paul used
terms like man and he, like we do at times, to indicate persons
without reference to gender, and he specifically includes women in
1 Timothy 3.
Are you
declaring that you will never reach these conclusions. I never
thought that I would either. But when I declared that I would not
change my mind, I was really saying to myself that I already knew and
understood everything about the subject and would grow no more.
Fortunately,
as with the expansion of my waistline, growth is not always
intentional, invited, and without resistance. Expansion is of God
when we hunger and thirst after righteousness.
Will the
women’s service be forever restricted as long as anyone objects
to their participation? If it is the weak brother whose conscience is
being violated, respect must be given to his convictions until he can
be taught more fully. But the stubborn person who refused to grow in
understanding is not the weak brother. He is the divisive brother
when he demands that his ideas rule.
In Romans
14 and elsewhere Paul called for consideration of persons with
scruples about meat, days, and circumcision, yet he did not permit
them to bind diet, days, or circumcision. We must not continue to
allow contentious people to limit Christian liberty by binding their
convictions. Much courageous teaching of the weak brother needs to be
done regarding the liberty of women.
It
is not the “safe course” to forbid the exercise of the
God-given gifts of women in serving. —1350 Huisache, New
Braunfels, Tx. 78130
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Ultimately all preaching must be the attempt to reconcile men to God through Jesus Christ; and therefore the preacher must continuously confront the hearer with the challenge of the Gospel of Christ and the invitation to the pilgrimage of the Christian life.-- William Barclay