THE (FREE) GIFT RECEIVED

Sin pays its wage — death; but God’s free gift is eternal life in union with Christ Jesus our Lord. —Rom. 6:23

A gift to be a gift is free, and it would be adequate for the above verse to say simply: God’s gift is eternal life. But this version, the Good News for Modern Man, along with others, renders that charming Greek word charisma as “free gift.” Nearly all versions, including the King James, adds the free in Rom. 5:15-16. Charisma in these contexts seems to say more than simply gift, so most of the translations seek to capture the force of the language with free gift.

Proud man with his propensity for independence tends to eschew anything free. He wants to pay his own way. He does not want to be obligated. Even as a child he insisted, as does my three-year-old granddaughter, “I can do it myself,” and this penchant for self-sufficiency affects his religion. He is persuaded that he lives in a world where “There are no free lunches,” and so he is slow to accept the idea of a free gift, unconditionally free, with no strings attached. He just can’t accept it, not even in religion. He has to do something, he figures, but apparently the apostle means just what he says. God’s grace is free, a free gift.

I recall a family Christmas party at which my six brothers and one sister gathered to exchange gifts for our children. The child of one of my brothers received a gift that was not anticipated. He whispered to his wife, “Is that covered?” He could not bear a circumstance in which he (or his child) received without giving something in return. We prefer to stay “one up” on those who would be gracious to us. We feel obligated to anyone who has us as guests for dinner. We must now have them! We recoil at the idea of a sure-enough, no-strings-attached free gift. It invades the taproot of our psyche, our selfish pride.

The Japanese, who may be the proudest people in the world, make a science out of being “one up” on you. While they will graciously accept your overtures, when the contacts are all over it is certain that they will have out-gifted you, even if it means handing you a gift as you enplane at the airport. It is not that they are not truly a gracious people, but that they make sure they are “covered.” It is excusably human.

But does it not miss the point of a religion based on grace? It is the principle of grace as a free gift that seldom finds a home in the heart of man. Even those who profess to accept the gift can hardly receive it as truly free and unconditional. The Scriptures indeed call it a free gift, and in our heads we accept that, but it has difficulty invading our hearts. A free gift! I am suspicious that most Christians are like myself: it is almost too much for us to comprehend. Even God does not hand out free lunches. We have to do something: some work, pray, be baptized, give money, attend church, something! It can’t really be that free, we reason in our self-sufficient pride.

The spirit of the free gift, unconditional grace and love, hardly pervades the ongoing of life of most of us. And yet this is the only way any of us want to be loved. I often tell Ouida that my love for her is not on a contract basis; it is not a two-way agreement. I love her unconditionally, no strings attached. If she ends up in a wheelchair, no longer capable of the usual responses, I will love her just the same. She doesn’t have to stay beautiful, young, thin, sexy, rich, alert, or anything else, for me to love her. I have chosen her to love forever. There is nothing she can do to change that. Conditional love is not only not true love but it begets fear and insecurity. If we always have to “measure up” in order to be loved, we will always feel both unloved and unworthy.

It is breathtaking to realize that that is the way God loves us, unconditionally. I do not have to be good enough, obedient enough, intelligent enough, sacrificial enough, prayerful enough, studious enough. True, he is a covenant-making God and we are part of that covenant or agreement,
but his love does not depend on our loyalty to that covenant. Nothing can separate us from his love, not even our own waywardness. Jesus teaches us that God loves like the father loved his prodigal son, especially when he was in the pig pen. When the son returned home there were no demands meted out. The father loved him and accepted him as is, no strings attached. It was indeed a free lunch, yea, it was a free banquet!

God’s free gift of his grace! Doesn’t it blow your mind when you ponder the implications? It means, it has to mean, that there is nothing, absolutely nothing, that we can do to merit it or deserve it or be worthy of it. We cannot be like the Pharisee that “considered himself righteous” because of what he did and “counted all others for naught.” He thanked God that he was not like others! We can only be like the humble publican who stood back from the altar, unworthy, who cried to God as he beat his breast, Be merciful to me a sinner!

This is the love we are to show to our children. If we love them only as they measure up to our expectations it is not love at all. A child is made anxious when he has to perform at a certain level, whether on the playing field or in the classroom, to gain his parents’ acceptance.

And our love for each other as Christians must be unconditional. Sectarianism is cruel in that it demands that we love only those who are true to the party. If those in my congregation love me only as I “line up” and believe and act precisely as they do, I have no reason to feel secure in their love. If they love me with the love of the free gift, they will love me when I am wrong. It is an inadequate religion when one has to be “right” to be loved.

I recently visited one of our ministers who is now serving another denomination. I sensed that he supposed that he did not count with me as much since he had “left us,” so I assured him in no uncertain terms that my devotion to him was not based upon party loyalty but upon our common bond in Jesus Christ. “You are my brother in Christ and I love you (period),” I told him, “and that isn’t affected by moving from one denomination to another, for we can serve Christ wherever we are.” In fact that may be where more of us should be, out there proclaiming the good news to those who need it most, assuming that “they” need it more than “we”.

And that is the good news, that God’s grace manifest in Christ is a free gift. Thank God for that! If it depended on my goodness or my righteousness or my works, it would be bad news instead of good, for there is no way for me to cut it. I am not good enough to deserve it, strong enough to demand it, rich enough to buy it, nor can I work hard enough to merit it.

Titus 3:3-6 spells out this truth poignantly. Verse 3 presents the before side of the picture: “We ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by men and hating one another.” Here we have man’s perversion and degradation, hopelessly estranged from God. Then comes the great But of verse 4: “But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us.” God acted in our behalf, as unworthy and undeserving as we were, because he is good and loving. He saved us by his grace, only by his grace.

Verse 5 makes it clear that it was not because of “deeds done by us in righteousness, but in virtue of his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal in the Holy Spirit.” Even a righteous act on our part, if such there is, such as penance or baptism, is of no avail. It is only “in virtue of his own mercy” that we are delivered from the before life. That he would refer to “the washing of regeneration,” which almost certainly refers to water baptism, and “renewal of the Holy Spirit” in this context shows that these are acts of grace which we receive, not acts that we perform. We do not do baptism as a work on our part. It is rather something done to us. We receive baptism, and in receiving this act of grace we receive the renewing power of the Holy Spirit.

Whatever we say about baptism or a “plan of salvation” we must place it within the context of a free gift from God. We cannot do anything to be saved, not if it is a free gift. Of course we must accept the gift, but even our response in repentance and baptism is motivated by God’s philanthropy, “which he poured out upon us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior,” to refer once more to Titus 3. That passage goes on to read: so that we might be justified by his grace and become heirs in hope of eternal life. It is clear that we are justified by what God has done for us, not by what we have done. We are not saved by obeying commandments; we obey commandments because we are saved. We do no works to be saved; we work because we are saved.

Our response to the Father’s grace is to be overwhelming gratitude. That gratitude, based upon the goodness and kindness of God, leads us to faith, repentance and baptism. These responses are his work within us (Philip. 2:13), not any righteousness that we do ourselves (Philip. 3:9). Faith and baptism then are part of the free gift. I cannot even believe on my own, unless it be a kind of intellectual assent. The faith that saves is the free gift of God, motivated by the good news of Jesus Christ. It is only when we see the grand truth of the free gift that we begin to perceive the meaning of the grace of God. —the Editor