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If
and when I revise my history of the Stone-Campbell Movement I might
have to recognize that the most famous (or infamous?) name among
Churches of Christ in the 1980’s is Marian Guinn. She was
catapulted into fame by way of a judicial spectacle that resulted
from a suit she filed against the elders of the Collinsville Church
of Christ in Collinsville, Oklahoma, near Tulsa. As the plaintiff
she charged that the elders invaded her privacy when they publicly
exposed her as an adulteress before the congregation, withdrawing
fellowship, and then sending such information to other churches. The
elders as the defendants insisted that they were doing their duty as
elders of the church, administering discipline according to the
Scriptures.
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The
trial made headlines across the nation, in both
Time
and
Newsweek
as
well as the great metropolitan dailies, and was given extensive
coverage on radio and TV. A Texas business man told me he was
repeatedly exposed to the story on TV while staying in a New York
hotel. It has attracted the attention of jurists and clergy alike
both for its drama and its uniqueness. One lawyer indicated that the
trial might well have plowed new ground in reference to “the
right of privacy,” which thus far has limited judicial
history.
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But
Marian Guinn is not only now famous but rich or potentially rich,
for she not only won the suit to the tune of $390,000, but Hollywood
has offered her $200,000 to $300,000 for the right to use her story.
This caused a Tulsa newspaper to quip that she had received “Manna
from Hollywood,” if not from heaven!
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The
subjects of this affair may be seen as ordinary folk like the rest
of us, caught up in a drama they had no way of anticipating. The
elders are probably well-meaning men who were only doing their
God-given duty as they saw it. They had shown Marian various
kindnesses, when she was on welfare, such as helping her buy a car
and find a job, and even when her sin of adultery marred the
relationship they continued to be solicitous toward her. It was only
when she refused to repent that they threatened public exposure and
withdrawal. All of us, and especially those of us who have served as
elders, can only sympathize with these men in their ordeal, even if
we believe they erred.
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As
for Marian Guinn, a nurse, she is probably a reasonable and decent
person, as most Church of Christ folk are, caught up in a Greeklike
tragedy that she did not ask for and would have avoided if she could
have. She was reported as saying that she did everything but get
down on her knees in an effort to dissuade the elders from their
threat of public exposure. A divorcee with four children, she must
have had a hard time of it, and, being lonely, it is understandable
that she would succumb to the attentions of the former mayor of
Collinsville, whose car was seen in front of her house all too
frequently. Bur no one has accused her of promiscuity.
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The
mayor’s name was broadcast far and wide as being involved with
her. After all the publicity my wife Ouida figures that he must be
hiding under the nearest pile of wood, and both of us feel that he
should receive his fair share of the “reward” money. It
is hardly the way to treat a mayor.
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The
lawyers of course played their role. The elders may have made a
mistake in selecting a lawyer who was a member of the Church of
Christ, for Marian’s attorney is one of those courtroom
generals who nearly always wins. He added to the drama with such
statements as: “He’s single and she’s single and
this is America,” which was impressively realistic. Most of us
consider illicit sex between singles as less serious than when
marital vows are violated. And it is the latter, not the former,
that is really adultery. The commandment
Thou
shalt not commit adultery
is given to those who would betray the marital covenant. Marian’s
lawyer also taunted the elders for their claim that their treatment
of her was done in love. “They loved her so much that they
loved her plumb out of town!,” he said, referring to Marian’s
flight to Tulsa amidst the storm. The lawyer knew that most folk who
sit on juries, including church members, have a built-in sympathy
for the underdog, especially when the pursuer is an institution.
Half of the jury belonged to no church at all.
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The
elders’ lawyer dutifully appealed to Oklahoma’s Supreme
Court to dismiss the case, arguing that the church should be left to
settle its own affairs. But the high court rejected the appeal
without comment, so the case had to be settled in court. Faced with
the trial the lawyer told the press: “We are going to find out
what elders can and can’t do.” The jury decided that the
elders could not legally do what they did. But amidst all the smoke
of battle there is confusion in the minds of many Church of Christ
people, if not the public at large, as to what it is that elders
cannot do.
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In
the light of the trial it is rather simple:
elders
cannot administer discipline to one who is not under their
oversight.
Some preachers in the Tulsa area confuse the issue, charging that
the court is trying to deny us religious freedom or to tell the
church how to run its affairs. This is a smokescreen.
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A
week before the climactic public withdrawal, Marian Guinn, at the
advice of her counsel, presented to the elders in person a
handwritten resignation from the congregation, and she warned the
elders that if they persisted in their course she would take legal
action. This the elders ignored and proceeded to expose her
publicly, calling her name and telling the people not to associate
with her.
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Two
things were never questioned in the trial: (1) Marian Guinn’s
guilt as charged; (2) the church’s right to discipline or
withdraw from its own members. The issue was whether the elders had
the right to discipline her after she resigned her membership, thus
invading her privacy. The jury decided that since she was no longer
under their jurisdiction, the elders
did
invade
her privacy.
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Here
is an oddity in the history of Church of Christ polity: the elders
contended that the woman did not have the right to resign from the
congregation during a disciplinary procedure. They would not in
effect accept her resignation. She could not withdraw from the
church, they had to withdraw from her. It is something like an
employer telling an employee, “You can’t quit, I fire
you!”
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This
strange doctrine led the editor of the
Tulsa
Tribune
to
defend on his editorial page “The Right to Resign.” A
Church of Christ minister for 47 years responded to the editorial
and while pleading for sympathy for the elders in their plight on
the part of the press concluded by saying: “Another issue
raised in your editorial was regarding the right of a member to
resign his church membership, and this is a valid one. It challenges
the notion that one is perpetually a member of a congregation and
cannot withdraw his membership. I have been a Church of Christ
minister for 47 years, and I had never before heard this contention
made. It is not a view generally shared by Churches of Christ or its
ministers.”
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Indeed!
It is axiomatic that if one has the right to join a voluntary
society he has the right to resign from that same society and at
anytime. That society in turn has the right to draw up its own code
of ethics and to dismiss from its membership those who violate it.
And we in Churches of Christ believe that there are circumstances in
which our members can be excluded from the local congregation (but
not necessarily from the Body of Christ at large). But to say that
one cannot withdraw her membership, whatever be the circumstances,
is going to far. Far too far, for it impinges on that person’s
freedom.
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I
am persuaded that even if the jury had been made up entirely of
Church of Christ members, the verdict could have been no different.
You are not going to get our people to make the judgment that a
member of one of our congregations cannot withdraw his membership at
any time and for any reason. Perhaps Marian no longer felt
comfortable in the Collinsville Church of Christ, or she didn’t
like the new paint job, or she feared the building might collapse on
her some Sunday. The reason doesn’t matter — any reason
or no reason. She had the right, the God-given right, to withdraw
her membership whenever she wished.
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And
in resigning amidst the ugly conflict she gave the elders an out if
they wanted out. If they had issued such a statement as this to the
congregation, the matter would have ended then and there: “There
is a sister among us who has fallen into the sin of adultery. We
have made painstaking effort to turn her from the course she has
taken, but without success. She has in the meantime submitted to us
her letter of resignation from this congregation. So you will
understand that she is no longer a member of this church and thus no
longer under our shepherding care.” One gets the impression
that for whatever reason they did not want out.
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This
is a great embarrassment to the Church of Christ and we should all
regret it deeply. It does not help that some of our preachers in the
Tulsa area, however well-meaning they may be, confuse the issue, as
they did before thousands of our folk at the Tulsa Workshop,
inciting negative feelings toward “the powers that be.”
I was present to hear one preacher criticize the court for
infringing upon our freedom of religion, and he presumed to speak
for all “fundamentalist churches” when he wondered what
would come next in the state’s efforts to involve itself in
the affairs of the church, indicating that the separation of church
and state was threatened. And of course the sin of Marian Guinn was
well emphasized.
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But
this was all beside the point. The trial never raised the issue of
Marian Guinn’s guilt. This was conceded and understood.
Neither was there any question raised of the church’s right to
discipline its members. There was no threat whatever to religious
freedom. There was but one issue: did the elders have the right to
do what they did to a
former
member
of their church. The judge emphasized this fact, instructing the
jury
not
to
regard her as a member at the time the disciplinary action took
place.
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We
may have hurt ourselves badly if the public is led to believe that
if you join a Church of Christ you join for life and can’t
resign if the elders say you can’t. Those brethren who fear
that the world will be shocked to’ see us “harboring
adulterers” need to ask what the world must think of our
understanding of freedom.
We
may
be the ones that are a threat to religious freedom if the
Collinsville doctrine is our doctrine.
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One
prominent Tulsa minister, a fine man and a great preacher, has taken
up the Collinsville cause with abandon. On a cassette tape that he
circulates far and wide (the cost of $5 goes into a legal fund for
the elders) he tells you how you can make a million dollars. Join a
good Church of Christ, he says, and commit some such sin as
homosexuality or adultery. Then refuse the pleas of the caring
eldership, and then when they take disciplinary action against you,
sue them for a million dollars. You are sure to win!
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Whether
intentional or not he left out one crucial step. To have a chance
for that million you’d have to find an eldership that would
publicly expose you after you withdrew your membership from their
church. In spite of the minister’s insistence, it is risky to
try to get rich that way. There is surely only one eldership among
us with such an idea, and it is not likely that they will continue
to practice it. They can’t afford it!
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As
for our dear sister Marian Guinn, there is a frightful irony to all
this. She was no doubt sincere in her desire for privacy, and we can
respect the jury’s verdict that her privacy was invaded. But
what is she now but a very
public
figure,
one who is apparently willing to portray her carnal past and her
fracas with a small, unsuspecting church on the silver screen for
money. She could of course say that the elders started it, but what
was at first an exposure to a church of 120 people now holds promise
of going burlesque before multiplied millions and at her choosing.
By the time her children are grown she might decide that the cost
was too high.
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So
with the elders who have appealed the verdict to a higher court. One
would suppose that everyone has had enough. —the
Editor
