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While
in the home of Morris and Amber Yadon in Kansas City recently, while
conducting studies with the 59th and Kenwood Church of Christ, I had
the scintillating pleasure of looking through several boxes of old
books, some of which were more than three centuries old. Morris’
father had nursed them for a lifetime and now it is the son’s
turn to enjoy them and/or dispose of them. The cache includes such
rarities as the original publication of Clarke’s
Commentary,
which
was in 60 installments in paperback, and the impressive three-volume
Prideaux’s
Connections,
as
well as an old Latin Bible that dates back to the 16th century.
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But
the book that interested me as much as any other was a tiny volume
in excellent condition entitled
A
Discourse on Meekness and Quietness of Spirit,
by
the noted Matthew Henry. The book has no date, but since Henry was
born in Broad Oak, England in 1662, he must have authored this book
about 1710. The title page includes 1 Peter 3:4: “A meek and
quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.” He
points out in the book that it must be for man’s good for him
to do and to be that which is highly esteemed by God. The book rings
with such sweetness of spirit that I was eager to share it with any
who would listen.
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I
read from it to Amber as we had time. The next morning the Yadons
and I joined Bob and Mary Cline. Since it was a Saturday we could
spend the morning together, and it gave me a chance to visit with
the two elders of the congregation. Once Mary had fed us hot cakes
and sausage, I conducted a devotional for the five of us, reading
still more and at some length of Matthew Henry’s
Meekness.
Since
I was eager to share it even more, Morris allowed me to bring it
home with me. Already I have shared it with Ouida, who is at this
moment in bed with a cold, and now I am passing some of its gems
along to thousands of others through this journal. Matthew Henry
would never have dreamed that his little book, but one copy of it,
would be behaving in such a way 250 years later. It just shows that
what one writes may die and rise again, to haunt or to bless, as the
case may be.
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Matthew
Henry would be especially pleased to be heard by free and eager
people, for the England of his early years did not allow for such
liberty. His father was a dissenting minister, critical of the
established church, and consequently was not allowed to enter his
own pulpit. But he trained his children in morning and evening
devotionals, and he instilled in them a deep reverence for the
Bible. Matthew entered upon a study of law since it was unlikely
that dissenters would be able to be ministers. But he eventually
became a preacher in the Presbyterian Church, and he filled each
Lord’s day with intensive study of the scriptures for his
people, including lessons from both Testaments. He eventually
produced a commentary on the entire Bible, which has always been
considered inspirational and devotional as well as scholarly.
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I
did not know that he had authored this little volume on meekness
until I came upon it. It is obvious from reading it that he
considered this virtue basic to Christian character. One chapter is
on the “Want of Meekness Lamented” in which he notes
that many believers who are so strict and sober about many things
often lack the virtue of a meek and quiet spirit. Zeph. 2:3
impressed him: “Seek ye the Lord, all ye meek of the earth. .
. seek meekness.” Those who are meek are to seek still more
meekness. He says we are to ask God to cultivate the meek and quiet
spirit within us. It is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. He points also
to 1 Tim. 6:11 which says that we are to follow after meekness, and
Col. 3:12 that tells us to put on meekness, as well as to Tit. 3:2
that speaks of showing “all meekness unto all men.” He
makes a point of Paul writing
all
meekness.
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He
extols meekness as “the sweetest and surest peace,” for
he who is master of his own passions is greater than he who rules a
nation. Our worst enemies are those within our own bosoms that “war
against the soul.” He associates meekness with quietness, and
I like the metaphors he uses: we are to be quiet “as the air
is quiet from the winds,” and “as the sea is quiet from
waves,” and “as the land is quiet from war.” But
the best metaphor comes from the Psalmist: “I have behaved and
quieted myself as a child that is weaned of his mother, my soul is
even as a weaned child.
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It
is Henry’s rules of direction for the meek and quiet spirit
that I consider especially helpful. He sees the fruit of the, Spirit
like links in a chain, where each one contributes to the strength of
the others, and so many virtues strengthen meekness of soul. So he
comes up with several rules:
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1.
Withdraw
your affections from this world.
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The
more the world is crucified
to
us,
the more our corrupt passions will be crucified
in
us.
If we would keep calm and quiet, we must by faith live above the
stormy region. We must also mortify the desire of the applause of
men as inconsistent with our true happiness.
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2.
Be
often repenting of your sinful passions and renewing your covenants
against them.
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If
we are truly penitent, we cannot but live a quiet life. If such
passions as rash anger were more distasteful to us, we would not so
easily relapse into it. Resolution to overcome our sins would go far
in conquering the most rugged nature and bearing the greatest
provocation. When we are loud, rude, impatient or rash we should
repent and firmly resolve, through the strength and grace of Jesus,
to be more mild and gentle in the future.
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3.
Keep
out of the way of provocation.
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This
is what “Lead us not into temptation” means. We are to
watch and avoid situations in which we are likely to be provoked and
thus behave rudely. Those are in a bad way who seek out a quarrel or
dig up mischief. Meek and quiet people will not fish for
provocation, and when it appears they will see it as though they saw
it not. Those who would not be angry must wink at that which would
stir up anger.
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4.
Learn
to pause.
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A
good rule: “Be not rash with thy mouth, and let not thine
heart be hasty to utter any thing” (Ecc. 5:2). The Bible also
says that the discretion of a man defers his anger. If we are
tempted to be angry, he advises that we might pause to say the
Lord’s Prayer, for things might be different by the time we
repeat “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who
trespass against us.” He likes the rule “Think twice
before you speak once.”
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5.
Pray
to God by his Spirit to work in you this excellent grace.
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“Lord,
keep me quiet now!” is a prayer that should often be on our
lips. We complain of noisy and brutal people around us, but we must
rather complain of the unquiet spirit within ourselves.
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6.
Be
often examining your growth in this grace.
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As
you are provoked from day to day do you find that you are gaining
command over your passions? Are your resentments less keen than
before? Are you less easily offended? Is the little kingdom of your
mind more quiet than it has been? Each night we should examine
ourselves as to whether we have had a quiet day. Let conscience keep
up a grand inquest in the soul.
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7.
Delight
in the company of meek and quiet persons.
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We
should seek fellowship with the meek and quiet, and “Make no
friendship with an angry man lest thou learn his ways.”
Observe in others how sweet and amiable meekness is and seek to be
like them. Company is assimilating and we are apt insensibly to grow
like those with whom we associate, especially the bosom friendships.
The wolf is no companion for the lamb until he learns not to hurt
and destroy.
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8.
Study
the cross of the Lord Jesus.
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We
shall grow more meek and humble as we learn more of the sufferings
of Christ. Think often of the cross, especially as to why he
suffered. He died as the great peacemaker, to make men brothers and
to reconcile them to God. We never want to contradict that design by
our conduct. Those who would show forth the meek and humble life of
Christ must bear about them “the dying of the Lord Jesus.”
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9.
Think
often upon the dark and silent grave.
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Henry
suggests that when we are disturbed about the way things go, we
should pause and consider how quiet death will make us, when we will
be incapable of resenting and resisting injuries. Think of how quiet
death will make you, and thus resolve to be quieter now. You will
ere long be out of reach of provocation, so learn to bear with
injuries and injustices now. And is not a quiet spirit the best
preparation for that quiet state? Henry says it might be well for us
occasionally to sprinkle a little dust at our feet, as a reminder of
our end, for that might quieten our spirits and end our quarrels.
When David’s heart was hot within him he prayed, “Lord,
make me to know my end.”
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He
concludes by insisting that nothing will give us more comfort and
repose and make our lives sweet and pleasant than meekness of
spirit. It is a lovely and excellent ornament that is esteemed by
all. Let us all be among the quiet of the land. —the
Editor
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