Second
in a Series . . .
SOME CHURCH OF CHRIST HEROES
Faith
was his greatest shield, Enthusiasm was his greatest weapon, Death
his greatest victory.
So
reads a new stone on a new grave in a new cemetery behind a new
meetinghouse for the Church of Christ in Grassy, near Arab, Alabama.
The tribute in marble is especially significant in that it was
composed by an elder of a congregation in honor of a fellow elder, a
brother who passed from this earth while he was doing what he loved
most, teaching the Word to the congregation on Lord’s Day.
It
has been nearly 25 years since I first met Oliver D. Stone. He then
lived on a farm near the Grassy congregation that he served as an
elder. He was one of those hospitable men, along with his dear wife
who survives him, who always had the preachers in his home who came
to hold meetings. These were significant occasions to him, for it
gave him further opportunity to talk about the Bible. He loved the
Word as few men do, and he delighted in entertaining new ideas. And
he loved people, especially children. Nothing pleased him more than
to go hiking or on a fishing trip with a bunch of kids, always
talking about the Bible along the way. This had its effect upon the
youth growing up in the congregation who came to love this man so
deeply. It was a sad ordeal to send out the word to these kids, now
with families of their own, that O. D. Stone was gone. They knew that
the trips back home to Grassy would never be the same without brother
Stone up teaching the Bible. “He died while up teaching the
Bible?,” they would respond to their parents, “How else!”
Oliver
Stone was youth’s kind of man: enthusiastic, hopeful,
confiding, trusting, nonjudgmental. And yet he was a man of
substance. He was no phony, but plain Oliver Stone who lived and let
live, and they loved him for it. I remember him as an example of
Paul’s words “Love believes all things,” for he was
this way almost to the point of being naive. Not only did he put the
best, not the worst, interpretation on what someone did, giving him
every benefit of the doubt, but he would go on believing when there
was hardly any ground left to believe. As a building contractor he
often “lost” materials that somehow managed to take an
legs and walk away. When such items sometimes showed up in the
possession of some of his workers, he would find someway to make an
excuse for them. In this suspicious, distrusting world his simple,
gracious faith was indeed refreshing.
But
what I admire most about Oliver Stone is the way he responded to the
recent unity efforts among Churches of Christ, along with the changes
in attitude and practice that this called far. When I first began to
hold meetings in that part of Alabama, where I eventually conducted
25 or more through the years, everything was orthodox Church of
Christ doctrine, except that I supported Grassy in their
determination to have a congregation not dependent on the pastor
system. I held meetings under tents, under brush arbors, in the open
air, as well as in our church buildings. I rapped the sects rather
hard and baptized scores and scores of people. I continually issued
the challenge that the Church of Christ is scriptural in name,
doctrine and practice, and I had more fusses and debates with
ignorant, undisciplined preachers than I could count on the fingers
of both hands.
That
Oliver Stone could somehow endure the Leroy Garrett of those days,
and then go on in his senior years to make the changes he did is
surely a tribute to his openness. And he, along with his fellow
elders, led the Grassy congregation into this new freedom, so that
now, even though he is gone, Grassy is a free church in the Lord,
willing to give any reasonable brother a fair hearing and any new
idea a chance to prove itself. All through these years of change
Grassy has left its pulpit open to all viewpoints, and they continue
to invite “orthodox” and “unorthodox” alike
to address them. Even now as they lay plans far a unity meeting they
are eager that it be a love feast in which every participant is not
only received with affection, but that every viewpoint be given a
sympathetic hearing.
Oliver
Stone was a man who never grew too old to learn and to change. When
it dawned on him what liberty in Jesus really means, and that the
church of Christ an earth involves far more than what we had always
thought, he was as joyously liberated as a man loosed from years of
imprisonment in a dark cave. Once when I was back in Grassy brother
Stone wanted me to go with him to call on the shut-ins, and he gladly
included in the number some “brother Baptists.” He went
on to call some of the non-Church of Christ ministers in the area
brother. A few years earlier I would have gotten on to him for that!
But once Oliver’s concept of brotherhood came closer to Jesus’
concept of the kingdom of God, he found brothers all across the
country, and he fell in love with every one of them. Somehow, after
all these years, he came up with brothers that I hadn’t
baptized!
As
James Ledbetter, once a fellow elder to Oliver, said in his lines of
praise on marble, Oliver’s greatest weapon was his enthusiasm.
Not content that Grassy congregation hide itself in an old building
back in the sticks, he campaigned for a new brick structure out on
the highway, and suggested that the church could have a large
cemetery out back and help pay for the building by selling lots. It
is all now a reality, with brother Stone living long enough to enjoy
the new building and being among the first to be laid to rest in the
new cemetery.
Death
his greatest victory. James is right here too, for all his life
Oliver looked forward to the experience of death and to what he
believed it leads to. He made his loved ones promise that in his last
hours they would not allow physicians to give him any anesthetics so
that he could enthusiastically drink deep of life’s last great
drama, death itself.
Oliver’s
last years were difficult ones. Failures in business cost him
everything he had, even his name. He had grown old and was left a
poor man, though earlier he had accumulated considerable wealth. Even
the savings laid aside for his and his wife’s declining years
had to be sacrificed. But somehow the Lord strengthened him and even
in these last year’s his enthusiasm was unabated.
And the Lord granted Oliver’s lifetime desire about death. He took him on a Sunday when no doctors or anesthetics were around. Oliver had opened the old Book before the congregation and began to teach as he had far so many years. The Lord sent an angel to touch him gently on the shoulder and bid him home. He laid down on the floor of the meetinghouse and fell asleep in Jesus, and while he was at it he drank deeply and enthusiastically of this world’s last great drama, death itself. — the Editor