ONLY
IN AGAPE
THE
MEANING OF LOVE IN THE RESTORATION IDEAL
by
Catherine Aller
Confused
and hesitant the Christian world stands today before the unfolding
drama of history. Appalling situations develop with relentless
urgency. Instinctively we know that we are confronting momentous
decision. Yet wherever we look we are struck with the tentative and
insecure nature of temporal opinion. Outside the churches, political
leaders, scientists, the writers of our great periodicals and daily
papers, grope for plans, suggestions, answers. Within the churches,
mostly under the surface in the seminaries as well as in the various
denominations, there is in process not only a reappraisal of
traditional methods but a re-valuation of certain long established
orthodox doctrines. The trumpets are uncertain. There is no clear
call to action.
In
a modern translation of the Book of the Acts,
The
Young Church in Action,
J.
B. Phillips dramatically records another hour in history when an
unprecedented period of anxiety and uncertainty was turned suddenly
into a blazing conviction of victory with a dynamic outburst of
energy never until then found in human affairs—and never since.
It was the birth of the Christian Church—Whitsuntide.
“Here
we are seeing the Church in its first youth,” he writes in the
preface, “valiant, unspoiled—a body of men and women
joined in an unconquerable fellowship never before seen on earth . .
. We cannot help feeling disturbed as well as moved, for this surely
is the Church as it was meant to be.” As we read this absorbing
translation we too are convinced that “Someone was at work
beside mere human beings. . . . The Spirit of God had found what
surely He must be always seeking—a fellowship of men and women
so united in love that they can be used by God for His own ends on
earth.”
Looking
back over two thousand years of history can we say precisely what
this young Church had that we today have lost? And why did we lose
it? What bearing may it have on the strange apathy and confusion of
today? Without wandering through mazes of theological discussion and
abstractions of metaphysics, but depending rather on the clear
perspectives of history, we come upon certain facts that have direct
and obvious bearing on the foregoing questions. It is vital that
these facts be clearly grasped, in order that we may face
intelligently the difficulties of the present hour. Briefly summed
up—too briefly it must be admitted—they are as follows:
During
the reign of Pontius Pilate all the little world involved in the
matter decided to reject the “Word made flesh” in Jesus
Christ. Everyone of His disciples forsook Him and fled. He died on
His cross—and they buried Him in a stone tomb. A long epoch of
time had reached its end. Then came the Resurrection morning. A
little group of beaten, cowardly, despairing men began to realize
that they had just made the greatest mistake ever made in history. He
had come back from His grave. He was in their own world again,
visibly, convincingly, historically. Something of eternity had broken
in on man’s sense of time. History had reached its maximal
point. All events before it had led up to it; all events since have
stemmed from it and must be evaluated in relation to it. Someone had
called it “The only thing that ever
really
happened.”
They
were ordinary men like us, but the wind-driven, flame-lit energy of
sudden new inspiration and positive conviction utterly transformed
them. God’s Word was passing into action on the human plane and
it altered the course of human affairs.
They
called the unprecedented energy that took hold of them “The
Holy Spirit.” That is a vague term today, even to the devoutly
religious. It was a spiritual mystery then, of course, but it was
anything but vague in its demands upon them! It was more than a
benevolent Presence, a diffuse good-will, an impulse to love
everybody, good, bad or indifferent. It was like an electric shock, a
discharge of spiritual power, that struck them out of confusion,
apathy, despair. It galvanized them into thinking, speaking, acting
as they had never done before.
As
the oral accounts of Jesus’ life and words passed out of the
Aramaic vernacular and took form in the Greek language, the Church
began calling the Spirit which had been given them by another name
—Agape. In the original Greek it meant love, affection, caring
for. “Continue ye in my Agape,” Jesus says. “God is
Agape,” writes John. “Who shall spearate us from the
Agape of Christ?” Paul asks. A wholly new thing had happened to
them and it required a specific name, lest it be confused with
ordinary love.
This
love
had its origin in God, not in themselves. It had been demonstrated to
them in the life of Christ and now it was suddenly and mightily at
work in them, not as individuals only, but as a
community
of
believers in Him. It possessed them, it
poured
through them,
in
all manner of acts of power and love. They gave it out to each other
and to their bitter enemies as well, in the face of amazement,
ridicule, persecution and martyrdom. They could not have understood
it before it happened to them. They could not have created it out of
their own hearts. They saw Agape as GIVEN LOVE translated into human
action through their acceptance of its Source. What their Lord had
asked for them had come to pass. “That they may all be ONE,
even as Thou are in me and I in Thee. . . . that
they
may
be perfectly ONE.” (John 17:21, 23 R. S. V.) THIS ONENESS IS
AGAPE. There lay the strength of it and the pattern of it. They were
bound to the Father, bound to their Lord Christ, bound to each other
in one unbroken power line of Love. This was being “in Christ,”
“in Agape.”
Nothing
of the kind had ever been known on earth. Agape came down like the
rain from heaven on the just and the unjust. Therefore they were to
love all men, just as God loved them, the good citizen and the
sinning. Sin was sin, a disconnection from God; they had no confusion
on that score, but they saw that all men were sinners, and all were
forgiven and beloved of God. They knew that what was happening to
them was inseparably connected with the life, death and Resurrection
of Jesus. He had told them to be witnesses for Him to all people.
They went therefore into all corners of the known world with it,
spreading its good news everywhere, changing lives, changing
world-old beliefs, changing the course of history.
The
kind of love they had been given and in return gave out is the very
essence of Christianity. It was AGAPE that established Christianity
in the midst of an angry unbelieving world, a world then, as now,
hovering upon the brink of momentous change. What happened to this
clearly perceived, vividly acted upon living force in the lives of
men? Why have relatively few individuals here and there in all
history seen that love and committed their lives to it? Again we turn
to the record of history. It will reveal some startling facts,
controversial in some quarters, exciting and inspiring in others. But
it will bring to a world situation which now finds religious
leadership confused, divided and on the defensive, a clarifying
knowledge of obscured events of the past, vital for today and too
long neglected. From this knowledge emerges definite hope for a
renewal of spiritual vigor in the Christian Church.
When
the little band of Christ’s followers began to expand and enter
the world of the Roman Empire they came face to face with a subtle
and dangerous antagonist, presenting itself, however, in the role of
a friend. They were brought in contact with the Platonic worship of
Eros. It was the popular religion and philosophy of the day. Eros
also meant love in Greek. It stood for the longing of the soul for
the beautiful, good and desirable, for the divine in its highest
form. This hunger was to be satisfied by climbing ever upward from
good already possessed to a yet higher vantage point, as on a ladder
set between earth and heaven.
At
once the inquiring Greek mind, always attracted to the consideration
of new ideas, on meeting the Christian faith, with its miracles of
healing, its gentleness, joy and evident inspirational content,
realized its usefulness to Eros. Surely this new doctrine could be
assimilated into their own philosophy; each could benefit the other.
Christianity could enrich Eros worship, while the Greek genius for
philosophical reason and order could smooth out of Christianity its
implausible and irrational features. Intellectual minds of the day,
both within the Christian group and without it, set about to
introduce the theories of pagan Eros into the living faith of
Christ’s followers. The results were calamitous for Agape.
Few
saw the irreconcilable differences involved. It all seemed reasonable
on the surface that a religion searching for the divine should blend
with one that offered a wholly new type of spiritual good. Few
realized that Eros and Agape were diametrically opposite to each
other in origin, principle and practice. No real synthesis was
possible between them. The one crossed the other out. For Eros was at
heart an ego-centric religion. Its adherents were out to
get
something,
by their own works, for their own advantage. However high their
motives, however subtle their reasoned idealism—long for
God—they fundamentally sought their own inner
self-satisfaction. Agape on the other hand was a love that
gave
at
whatever cost, even unto death. It poured itself out not to
attain
good,
or to the beautiful only, but to
bestow
good
on the poor and the needy and the unbeautiful, as well. It sought for
no reward. The Christian knew he had not created or invented Agape
out of the goodness or the hunger of his own heart. It was love
already possessed, given directly from God’s heart to theirs.
As it flowed into them from God so it flowed out of them to man
turning into historic act on the human plane. God originated and
directed the entire process. The power of Agape lay in a continual
hold on God. The Christian was God-centered, Agape-centered, not
self-centered. Philosophy must debate the
value
of
that which is desirable, delights in the subtle pride of intricate
self-expression through processes of reason. The Christian loves
spontaneously before he explains it. The primitive Christian practice
was “to walk in love, as Christ hath loved us.” This was
the ideal, never of course perfectly attained, but more nearly
demonstrated in human action by more individuals than ever before or
since in history.
THE
GREAT DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CHRISTIANITY AND EVERY OTHER RELIGION ON
EARTH IS JUST THIS: IN CHRISTIANITY GOD COMES TO MAN; IN ALL OTHERS
MAN STRIVES TOWARD GOD.
The
foregoing is put in capitals because it is essential to understand
that it is true. Once this difference has become clear one is
provided with a standard, a touchstone, whereby one can tell for
himself whether any religion, philosophy, ideology is God-sustained
or built on man’s own self-seeking. It is a pattern for
individual Christian living and thinking as well as for collective
unity.
It
was inevitable that controversy should enter the Christian community
at an early period, both by argument from without and by weakness
within. Paul fought magnificently to defend the clarity of Agape from
the infiltrations of the man-made doctrine of Eros. “Even if I
could talk like an angel, even if I had all knowledge—philosophy,
theology—if I did not have Agape it would gain me
nothing.”
His
message, he explained, was not with “plausible words of man’s
wisdom but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power, that your
faith might not stand in the wisdom of men but in the power of God.
Yet among the mature we do impart wisdom, although it is not the
wisdom of this age.” (I Cor. 2; 4-6. R. S. V.) He was
referring, of course, to Agape. No one has loved or lived Agape as
Paul, nor given a clearer statement of the essential responsibility
it involves that those who accept it must share it.
After
his day, the first joyous spontaneity dropped steadily under the
weight of argument among differing teachers and schools, in spite of
councils and creeds that attempted bravely to stem the tide. Here and
there an individual protest is found, shining with the fire of Agape,
but organized Christianity as a whole lost the light in the subtle
pride of self-expression, in the development of theories born of all
sorts of mixtures of thought. At times the church dropped to a level
lower than the ethics of pagan culture.
The
great Augustine brightened the outlook in the fourth century by his
emphasis on love, order, humility as prime requisites of Christian
living. He had been an ardent Platonist before he adopted
Christianity, and he never rid himself of the inherent human tendency
to seek good by one’s own efforts even when he was most
sincere, humble and eloquent in his love of God. He thought out an
ingenious combination of Eros and Agape. Others had attempted it
before him, but he was the first to make an apparent synthesis of the
two opposite doctrines officially accepted by the church. He taught
that God sent down Jesus Christ in order to assist man in climbing
the steep to heaven, by three ways, by piety (good deeds, penitence,
etc.), by intellectual striving and by mystic experience of God. All
three involve man’s winning his own salvation, working
toward
God.
What Augustine did not understand was the ever-presence of God in
man’s own heart, more ready to give than man is to receive.
Agape is not earned,
it
is freely given. “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If
any
man
.
. . open the door I will come in and sup with him and he with Me.”
His amalgamation lasted for about a thousand years, now showing the
influence of the true Agape, now of intellectually self-sufficient
Eros. All through the middle ages his confusion of motifs troubled
and darkened the minds of great thinkers. Wherever Eros gained a
footing the life-giving force of Agape was depleted.
In
the sixteenth century Martin Luther broke into the closed circle of
ecclesiastical domination, declaring that “faith, not works”
was the message of Christianity. “Good works do not make a man
good but a good man does good works,” he explained. He
understood Agape, the impartial love of God to man offered in spite
of the universal heritage of sin in natural man. Sin was not condoned
but the sinner was already forgiven, not condemned. In the practice
of Christian love we are to love our fellow man
just
as he is,
as
God loves him; to love the unlovely as well as the pleasant neighbor,
the personal enemy and the country’s dangerous foes—a
hard condition, never fully realized of course, but the fundamental
demand of Christ. This
is possible only by depending on tbe grace of the Spirit, not on
human will.
Other
leaders of the Reformation and innumerable individuals since have
seen the two conflicting ways of fellowship with God, but the
Protestant movement as a whole has not yet brought to the world—not
even to the Christian church—the true meaning of that power and
unity of love the first Christian agreed to call Agape. Most church
goers today would admit they have never heard of the word. Early in
this century, however, in Europe and America scholars have been
bringing the long ignored fact of the weakening of Agape by pagan
Eros to the attention of a few thinkers in the seminaries and among
the laity. They have been met with resistance in some quarters,
confused or hesitant acceptance in others, and sometimes with
immediate and profound gratitude. Hence the whole story of Agape has
simmered for years in the seminaries and reached the larger Christian
public only indirectly and insufficiently. Possibly the time has come
for a movement among the laity, supported by those ministers and
theologians who have accurately studied the facts and realized the
critical challenge, and are ready to give up long-honored theory for
insistent truth. Those who by education and training are inclined to
place a high value on philosophical method and a cautious approach to
human problems by traditional paths are, of course, less easily
persuaded to act than the layman, who may, however, be closer to the
grave human needs of the situation. This is by no means to imply that
reason, ethics, method, and planning have no place in Christianity!
They are, of course, essential to all human affairs. But a Christian
is led
by
the Spirit—not by philosophy or by reason. In small things and
in great things the Christian’s first resort is to God, in the
humility. of prayer, and the inspiration of revealed truth. Human wit
and planning are too subject to the frailty of human pride to be in
command of the issues of life. Revelation belongs initially to
individual
discernment,
the Word of God preparing mankind for action. The eclipse of the
primitive power of the Christian Church shows that today we have
indeed “lost something” that the early Church possessed.
It was precisely the infringement by the limited theories of men upon
the spontaneity of Agape that strangled its growth in the early days.
Although depleted by Eros in organized Christianity Agape has been a
living influence in the lives of countless individuals throughout the
centuries. It is the essential lost element in Christianity and the
ultimate possession of all religions. Only in Agape can an ecumenical
movement succeed. Only in Agape can the Christian Church regain its
unity, power and love.
All
history is the infallible record of man’s response to the Word
of God. When it is accepted and followed it leads on to human
betterment. When it is not, evil ensues—invariably. Man has his
allotted freedom of choice, within certain determined limits, of
course, but all initiative is with God. His Word
always
precedes
all human action on earth. “So shall my word be that goeth
forth out of my mouth. It shall not return unto me void. It shall
accomplish what I please.” When evil in man’s affairs
becomes so unbearable that he must do something about it he may
choose either to experiment longer with theories of his own or he may
decide that the time has come to turn to God for help. Every great
swing in history toward better things, greater freedoms, clearer
democracy, more extended humanities of kindliness and justice are the
results of voluntary human decision to obey the Word of God
consciously or unconsciously accepted as such. The record of the
early Church is the most outstanding and convincing proof of this.
This
is a plea for Christians and non-Christians to seriously study the
historic struggle of Agape and Eros, not only in its early stages of
two thousand years ago but in its continuing influence on world
thought today. The immense prestige of philosophy in connection with
theological studies and the authoritative approval given to
Augustine’s doctrines not only in the Roman Catholic church but
in Protestant theology as well, shows the confusion of today on the
subject within the Christian Church. How many prayers, hymns,
sermons, books reflect a striving toward God, not a recognition of
His eternal ever-presence. We “climb the steep ascent to
heaven,” we “rise on upward wing” we long to be
“nearer to Thee.” God cannot be nearer than our inmost
heart. “Closer is He than breathing; nearer than hands or
feet.” The time has come for us to renounce all Eros-infected
thinking for real Christian faith.
Among
books that will be found of help in this study by far the most
fundamental and important is
Agape
and Eros,
by
Anders Nygren, Bishop of Lund. This is a profound and scholarly
treatise on the subject both from the historical and the spiritual
point of view. It is published by the Westminster Press of
Philadelphia. A shorter and simpler work is “The Greatest Word
in the World,” by the present writer, which is based on
Nygren’s monumental study. It is published by the Cowman
Publications, Los Angeles 27, California. Well-known theologians are
beginning to write on Agape, among them Emil Brunner. Some eminent
and beloved ministers and scholars are still trying to combine Agape
with Eros, not realizing even yet that the pattern of Agape, the
stream that flows from God through man, sweeps away the
counter-current of natural man’s efforts to
draw
toward himself,
by
his own efforts any good thing. Once the real stream of Agape is
entered, self-seeking Eros is done away. We cannot travel north and
travel south at the same time.
Many
writers are now turning to the subject without using the word Agape.
When one is acquainted with the
issue
the
references are easily recognized. But there is no other word that can
be substituted for Agape. Love is too vague a term; it means too many
things to too many people, nor does it carry the historical content
of the word the early Church selected to define their meaning of
Love
in Christ.
It
has not the driving force the situation today demands. We need Agape
now for the same reason they needed it then, to carry to a rapidly
worsening world situation the knowledge and confidence of
a
conscious connection with God,
and
always available in an invariable pattern, when a fellowship of men
and women submit themselves to God, to be used by Him.
Within
the “two and seventy jarring sects” of Christendom as
well as out among the nations, regardless of color, creed, historic
background, an imperative call goes first to individuals to become
witnesses to Agape. Wherever you are in your daily activity cease
living for yourself, your own pleasure, your own advantage; begin to
accept God’s free love; begin to give it impartially to those
with whom you are in daily contact. “Be open on the
Godswardside.” When this change in the direction of individual
thought enters the stream of human life it inevitably affects the
life of others. One by one we will gather into a unity of action as
individuals and as groups. We wait on God’s initiative. Whether
this increasing movement shall become evident suddenly, as at
Pentecost, or proceed with deliberate strength, we know that the
Spirit is “always waiting” for the emergence of such a
fellowship of men and women. Thanks to the lessons of tragic past
history may we be aware this time of the necessity of abiding in the
pattern of in flowing, out-flowing Agape, undeceived by the
confusions of Eros, with its principle of acquisitive self-seeking.
The time has come for us to be converted to legitimate Christianity. It has not been sufficiently demonstrated on earth for two thousand years.
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Catherine Aller is an author who is seriously concerned with the predicament of man. You may obtain additional copies of this soul-stirring article for 15 cents each by writing her directly at Lakeville, Conn.
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No
book can do ALL a man’s thinking for him. The utility of any
statement is limited by the willingness of the receiver to
think.—Ezra
Pound.
We need education in the obvious more than investigation of the obscure.--Oliver Wendell Holmes.